This is The One Thing That’s Been Holding Me Back from Dating

… and it’s not what you’d expect.

Photo by Hian Oliveira on Unsplash

And right then and there, I understood what was truly holding me back from dating: I’ve been single for so long that it has become part of my identity.

I’m stuck in this trap, fearing that a new relationship will erase the progress I’ve made so far and take away my happy independence that I worked so hard for.

Writer. Creator. Teacher. Feminist. Just trying to spread love, talk about equity, and be a good human. She/her. Follow me on Instagram @brooklynxreece!

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